Tough Love

Tough love is loving someone when they least expect it and least deserve it.  The love that is in our gospels can truly be summed up with two words:  LOVE CONQUERS! The love the Bible teaches is not some type of quick “love at first sight until I see something better” love.  It is a … More Tough Love

Re U.N.I.T.E d

This is by far the most important message married couples who are currently struggling will hear.  When what was once an amazing marriage begins to derail, the common cause is always poor communication.  When we have been married for some time, it becomes far to easy to begin to take communication for granted and we … More Re U.N.I.T.E d

Need To Hear Their Feelings – U.N.I.T.E. Part 2

Tonight’s post is part 2 in our series on healing marriages that focuses on my U.N.I.T.E. marriage therapy methodology.  You can go to this link to catch the first post which was about Understanding your spouses hurts in case you missed it.  These steps 100% build off of each other, so it is important that you … More Need To Hear Their Feelings – U.N.I.T.E. Part 2

“I Do!”

For most people, the last thing they will say to their soon-to-be spouse at their wedding is “I Do.”  Two very simple words that state your agreement to the vows that you just made to one another. I can remember so vividly the moment that the door in the back of the church opened and … More “I Do!”